MY SEX

Rationalizing sex
Why do something as primitive, instinctual and biological as sex?
It's about neurons firing in my pleasure center. To get me to dispense some of my genes biology has supplied me with a pleasure button, a direct line to the pleasure center in my brain. True pleasure is rare in life so why not take advantage of the pleasure button.
It's like a drug without the side effects. (well there's V.D. and pregnancy but these are avoidable) First the sexual excitement is like an upper, (stimulant) and there's the opiate like post coital endorphin rush, (natures' way of rewarding me for spreading my genes) and in-between you get direct stimulation of the pleasure center and the mainline like rush of an orgasm.

Simply good sex
The difference between good sex and bad is simply how turned on you are.
How turned on I get is a product of two things, how turned on I am initially and how much my partner turns me on. How much my partner turns me on is the sum of how turned on she is and her sexual style, knowledge and intuition.
Selfish sex
I like to turn my woman on as much as I can because the more turned on she is the more turned on I get.

The facts of life
The difference between good sex and bad is simply how turned on you are, so the object should be to get turned on as much as possible. Men get turned on by visual stimulation (there is a multi billion dollar industry based on this) women who are not interested in visualy stimulating their lovers have as much chance of being good in bed as men who are not interested in foreplay.

True love
When I discover true lust in a woman.
A women who lusts and digs to be lusted over....... add stability, intelligence (intelligent enough to be an atheist), self-confidence, cynicism, good looks and rebelliousness in thought and style (an individualist who questions everything), and of coarse absolutely no desire to breed.
I like sex but I won't play the mating game.